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Beti Bachao ..... kis se??

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बेटी  बचाओ - कुछ सवाल  १. बेटी को किस से बचाओ  २ बेटी खुद बचने के लिए  सक्षम क्यों नहीं हो पायी  कुछ question जो कि मेरे mind में बहुत दिन से चल रहे थे। चलो इनका सवालों का कारण ढूँढ़ते हैं १. बेटी को किस से बचाओ  ये सवाल पैदा हुआ इस बेचैनी से कि बेटी सुरक्षित नहीं है, चाहे वो बढ़ी हो या छोटी, पर क्यों? मेरे ख्याल से हमारा system ख़राब था, शायद इसलिए - अगर हम ठीक होना  चाहते हैं तो हमें अपनी hypocrisy छोड़नी होगी।  एक तरफ लड़कियों की पूजा की  जाती है देवी के रूप में, उसके बाद उसी देवी से पुत्र प्राप्ति का आशीर्वाद माँगा जाता है। यही पूजनीय देवी जब अपने menses में आती है , उन 4 -5  दिनों के लिए मंदिर में आने की permission नहीं होती। ये कुछ अटपटी बातें हैं , जिनमें सुधार की आवश्यकता है। ऐसे मंदिर, मस्जिद व् अन्य सभी धार्मिक स्थलों का पूर्ण बहिष्कार होना चाहिए ,जो समाज में असमानता फैलाते हैं। जब बेटी पैदा होगी तो लोग hidden सांत्वना देंगे, उस बेटी को किसी देवी का रूप कह कर। बेटियों को इन लोगों और धर्म का चोला...

Open letter to Maneka Gandhi - on Violence by Men

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An open letter to Maneka Gandhi Ji To Ms.Maneka Gandhi The Union Cabinet Minister Women & Child Development (WCD) Dear Respectable Ma`am I came across a statement made by you recently, which inferred, referred and even clearly conveyed one thing, that WE, men are the violence creators. As per the statement made you "the role of men in gender sensitization was the most critical since "all the violence is male-generated. We have introduced (the concept of) 'Gender Champions' in schools, under which boys who have been respectful and helpful to girls will be rewarded". Source:  http://www.oneindia.com/india/maneka-gandhi-s-statement-on-men-has-rights-groups-up-in-arms-1869712.html Probably you will convince the girls and kids that, All men are dogs. Keeping in view your superb, brilliant, and intellectual statement, i would request you pls reconsider what you said. I am trying to give you some stats (as these no.`s speak...

WMD - Women for Men`s Destruction

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WMC (Willows of Men`s Construction) to WMD (Women for Men`s Destruction) Dsiclaimer:-  If you are a feminist, pls dont read this blog, you will get offended. Also, if you are a sexist, dont read it either, you will not find anything for your amusement. And most importantly, i am not an Asaram Bapu supporter. Women are too much into development and into competition these days. Presumably and assuringly visible women who used to be WMC(Willows of Men`s Construction) are getting converted into WMD (Weapons for Men`s Destruction).Women, who use to be stereotyped earlier and being stereotyped at present as well and being used as a Weapon to destroy the Man who is against the powerful. Women power is being used to use the rape, dowry (498a), etc. a potent weapon to destroy the ENEMIES.See around yourself and you will see many high profile, potentially dangerous men for govt. , are getting dumped into rape cases. And one prime example is Asaram bapu, even though i am no...

SEXUAL HARASSMENT of WO-MEN

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SEXUAL HARASSMENT of  WO-MEN " Women are equal to men, i think women are better than Men " search google and you will get a 10s, 100s, 1000s, and millions of such lines. I want to ask the women, Are we men so glorified and idlolized by them that they want to be equal to us or in a case better than us. We men are the reference point for them, Are we? Are we at war with each other? A ctually, i was going through  The Sexual Harassment of Women at Workplace (Prevention, Prohibition and Redressal) Act, 2013. And i found out something that this law must have been written, compiled and discussed by  some really prejudicially obssessed people and legislators. Pardon my language and dont hang me after this. But what i feel, i wrote. The simple reason for such dis-agreement is that, this act is similar to having a fixed quota for a particular category. In these laws/acts, a strict assumption is made to alleviate and to fix one community,  one has to be snubbed, to p...

MALE PREJUDICE TO FEMALE POSTJUDICE

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                                      MALE PREJUDICE TO FEMALE POSTJUDICE We are in 2030, and, with the advent of iphone23, they have announced an app which can measure the feelings. Technically speaking, the feelings are finally being measured in a tangible manner."thanks to Engineers and scientists", they have finally invented a device which can measure the feelings as well.  In 2012 a law was passed for the women, and against the men, saying that any man who stalks a woman, shall be imprisoned.And now an amendment to that law is being made after the cries of MAHA (men are also human association), Now this app will measure the EI (eyesight intensity) & II (intention intensity). Anyone ohh sorry i mean AnyMAN crossing the intensity limit of 30 units, shall be imprisoned.For a normal man this ...

Competing Wo-Men?????

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                                                  Competing Wo-men Women- An interesting topic for every man.You can smell the male prejudice and chauvinism here. Ain`t it?  If you don`t, there is something, "certainly" wrong with you? Men- All men are dogs. Male bashing, wow, interesting. Ain`t it? PJS (Preoccupied judgemental syndrome). A race which had been going on since centuries, and recently has turned excitingly exciting. Men sometimes,(ohh, let me correct- most of the times) refer to those cliches' and possess that stereotypical image of a woman. On the other side, what other side?. women take us the same way, the same age old stereotypical-ism prevailing about us, THE men. Sometimes i wonder, from where did we go...

21-12-12, A doomed DAY. ( NIRBHAYA WORLD)

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21-12-2012 DOOMS Day  22-12-12 Good morning! the world has not ended and my calender is showing me a date which says 22nd december,2012. May be the Mayan calendar couldnt evolve. So, one thing is for sure that our calendars have evolved after that. But the question which is to be asked on this day is  "HAVE WE REALLY EVOLVED AS HUMANS?".                 A few days back a girl was brutally raped. May be brutal is a small word and we need to define a new word for that heinous crime and the way it was committed. What sought of evolution have we really given to the world. I would say, certainly that the world has doomed after reading about that girl who was beaten, raped and thrown on the street to succumb to her injuries and finally to death.         We might have had evolved from apes regarding looks. But i dont think there is any animal in the world from whom we borrowed our b...